Top 5 Common Fetishes by Theresa

Sexual Fetish is the fixation on an object or action that makes sex better. The more desired the fetish, the more necessary it’s presence will be. Desire can manifest in forms such as adoring a woman who wears high heels to men who need to wear high heels to reach satisfaction. The range of fetishes and the degree to which people need it in order to feel satisfied varies greatly. From the mainstream fetishes to the deep and dark secrets that someone would rather not disclose publicly but act on it only with a trusted partner.

Mainstream fetishes you can come across trough out media, forums and movies. These are fixations people don’t mind disclosing because they have been so often discussed that it overlaps with the norm. Some of these fetishes are commonplace and you might think the absence of it or the inaction represents the fetish. Lets see five examples of it:

Shaved genitals and hairless body in general

That is right, it all started out as a fetish! Preferring your partner hairless would be odd just 50-60 years ago. A clean shaved pussy or shaved balls is born out of the desire of looking younger, juvenile even. The hairless genitals reflect on the pre pubescent period but also are hygienic and give better way for oral sex. Because of the aesthetic aspect and the facilitator of oral sex shaving has been adapted as norm. Hairy sex organs or how nature intended them to be are now preferred only by the eccentric ones and are representing the object of their fetish.

Sexy Lingerie

Sex used to be an action between man and woman that happened in the dark, under covers. The sexual act did not leave much room for manifestation or exhibitionism. The woman would undress and dress allowing as little as possible to be seen by their man. But as always there were those who love to admire. The women who do like to show a beautiful body adorned with beautiful fabrics and there were men who where loving it. Dressing for sex was not the norm, it is born out of the desire of the exhibitionists. Wearing sexy lingerie and perhaps beautiful silky stockings is what the sexy female ideal does in our times. She is proudly exposing her body wearing silky, lacy, under garments. This shows her powerful position in the sexual relations and that she is always ready.

Shoe fetishes

High heels or sneakers, shoe fetish comes in many forms. It is the extension of the leg that is defining the female posture. While high heels make a woman’s leg look longer also make her walk more carefully, delicate and give a graceful aspect to her being. Men who prefer the woman on high heels see her as more vulnerable. A girl wearing sneakers is more active. She might have an attitude of getting things done and does not like to be held back by the inconvenience of high heels. She might be the kind of practical girl who prefers to have a good time above all. Shoes are an attitude and since fashion industry gives us such a variety of attitudes to choose from shoe fetish became more acceptable than ever.

Oral sex

A blowjob was not always as easy to get. Also woman could not have the expectation of having their pussy licked. It is again those who dream, who dare, those who get fixated on having their partners mouth on their sex. Yes it is sensational. Oral sex can feel much better than regular penetration, if done right. We think about sex as incomplete without that blowjob or that clitoris sucking but this norm would break all hells loose just few decades ago.

Big Breasts

Big breasts you need to afford. Women with large breasts are regarded as hard to keep, high maintenance or unfaithful this is why being able to keep a woman like that is such a display of manliness. Breasts are uncomfortable for woman doing physical work. They also evolved once women did less physical effort for survival. The woman with big breast is wired in our being as the woman with a good life. This means that a man fetishizing the woman with large breasts also feels that he is capable. He is manly enough to keep her satisfied. Women with augmented breasts know the kind of men they will attract with them.

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Top 5 BDSM Cities World Wide by Theresa


When it comes to BDSM, Amsterdam is one of the cities that pop in to our minds. Years of reputation of being the city of drugs, prostitution, trannies and kinky exploration, Amsterdam is a good city to choose for those looking for carnal pleasure. BDSM venues are plenty and cater for any fetish any kink. The city but the country in general has good quality swingers clubs with truly hot couples and exclusive clientele. BDSM parties are maybe the most important to mention. With massive festivals like Wasteland ( or the little sins ( you can find a go out for any kink or fantasy.

San Francisco

Well known as the US’s city of free spirits and homosexuals but San Francisco is more than that. It is soaked to the fiber with kink and BDSM juice of all kind. You can tell that no one bets an eye about a kink freak if you find day light open BDSM coffee houses ( in decent neighborhoods. One of these places called Wicked Grounds, with fabulous reviews, is a safe heaven for those who want to enjoy a black coffee served by a waitress in black latex. San Francisco also offers a many BDSM dungeons that one could rent out for a more private gathering or join organized parties!


Home to all that is freaky and hard to understand for the vanilla western person. The kinky western person how ever will dive full in to all the nasty strange and funky Tokyo has to offer. A city with vending machines where you can buy used girl’s panties and where reading tentacle porn in public is normal, one would wonder where the limit is. To me Tokyo means bondage, also lady-boys but that is secondary. Bondage originated in Japan so Tokyo has a great selection of Bondage studios how ever these are hard to get in to for foreigners unless you’re a woman. If you do get in to one of these clubs/studios as a foreigner be prepared to pay double the rates a local would. All and all Tokyo is the freakiest mind bending city for any BDSM lover.


Because what else will they do in those long winter nights but bind, spank and fuck each other. Those freaky Danes have a culture of mystery and kink. They even have a festival ( celebrating fetish and sexuality. Prostitution is legal and so it is to hire a dominatrix or a tranny. Danish people are sophisticated and well versed if it comes to BDSM. Copenhagen specially hides many dungeons, parties and private clubs where one could come and be free to roll in whatever filth they like to.


Any party you’d attend in Berlin is crazy, wild, lustful but their BDSM parties are a level higher than anything else that you’d see anywhere lese in the world. When arriving to Berlin, you can start with booking a suite in one of the many fetish accommodations (for example than you can go to a fetish BDSM bar to get some warm up drinks ( before plunging in to one of the many BDSM clubs which won’t close with the dawn. Some clubs are indeed open 24/7 and you can join in at any time of the day you like. Berlin is a city you better check out for your self. No matter who you are and what you are looking for you’ll find it here in the true number one city of BDSM, Berlin.

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